"Many of the widows I met wanted to talk for hours about how hard their husband's last illness was and how much they learned to hate taking care of sick men.I learned not to cough or show weakness during these monologues.I still have room in my heart, not for a replacement, but for someone entirely new." Ralph, a 67-year-old widower, wrote: "My wife passed away four years ago after being married 41 years.
Barbara wrote: "We, the single women in our 60's are doomed!!!
Focus on the relationship: In an eight-minute session it’s highly unlikely that you’ll be able to close a deal.
So spend time forming a relationship that you can follow up with later.
" Most men said they want nothing to do with speed dating.
Dave, who is 65, said he feels he's being inspected.
I don't want to be questioned to see if I am worthy of anything." Don, who is 75, wrote: "My wife of 51 years died a year and half ago and I don't feel like just sitting and waiting to die.